Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Myspace - the demise of relationships

Myspace has got to be one of the most destructive and addictive websites around. The damage that it does to relationships far surpasses even porn! And why? Because people are liars. They fool themselves into believing that its just a harmless website, and whatever happens on myspace is just on myspace and doesn't affect their real lives. And that, my friend, is bullshit. Have you ever gone to your boyfriend's profile only to see 21-year-old bimbos leaving him sexy comments? Or how about the 550 friends that your girlfriend has? That girl doesn't even know 550 people, and yet each and every one of them is a guy leaving her a comment saying call me. And then there are the blogs. Oh, the power of the tongue. Sure - they're just words. But what about when you recognize yourself in those blogs? And what about when those blogs cast you in a bad light? Oh, but it's just myspace, it doesn't really matter. Right? Hell yes it matters. Look, if your partner is writing stuff about you on myspace, or has comments left by all these memebers of the opposite sex, and is in a relationship with you, there's a problem. It's not just words written on a stupid website. It's other women flirting with your man and him allowing it, it's other men telling your girlfriend to call them, and it's words that belittle you that your partner put up.

No, it's not just a website. It's something that is impacting your life and your relationship.